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The Birth Healing Program

Six-week online program

Is it time to give your birth experience the attention it deserves?

Join me for an incredible six weeks of nurturing support to emotionally process your birth experience. 

Learn a range of psychological tools that will help you find peace and move forward feeling lighter, stronger and more confident.

6 x weekly group sessions

Join Dr Rosie and a small group of other parents to be gently guided through the program via Zoom.

A safe space

Benefit from a safe, private space in which to explore your experience without judgement.

Emotional coping tools

Know what to do when you feel upset, angry or triggered by memories of your birth experience.

Specialised birth narrative tool

Guidance on how to revisit your birth story in a reflective way that supports you to process and heal.

Self-compassion skills

Unlock the power of self-compassion to better respond to distressing thoughts and feelings.

Additional community support 

Live support from me and the other group members inside a private dedicated Facebook group.

Join the waitlist

Places are limited. 

Be the first to know when enrolments open.

You will receive emails from The Birth Healing Collective and can unsubscribe at any time.

Hi, I'm Dr Rosie.

Perinatal Clinical Psychologist

I developed the The Birth Healing Program for parents like you who are looking for some additional support to emotionally process their birth experiences. 

One in three women describe their birth as traumatic, and many more are left feeling shocked, distressed and disappointed – and yet it is really hard to find the right support.

The Birth Healing Program is a wonderful opportunity for you to take some time to address any thoughts and feelings that have lingered on after your birth, so you can move forward feeling lighter.

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How does it work?

The Birth Healing Program is an online group program specially created for parents who have had overwhelming, upsetting or disappointing birth experiences. 

As a perinatal clinical psychologist with extensive training and experience in treating birth trauma, I designed this six-week program to provide you with a safe, non-judgemental space to work through difficult emotions connected to your birth experience.  

Whether you are a relatively new mum or some years have passed since giving birth, this program can provide you with the knowledge and tools to heal.

The program is evidence-based, which means it draws on established psychological principles and research on recovery from birth-trauma and birth-related distress, parental adjustment and psychological coping. 

Program Outline

Week 1 – Ingredients for healing 

In this session, you will…

  • Get to know me as as I talk you through my approach and the psychological principles behind this evidence-based program.
  • Learn how to make the most of this support so you can move forward feeling lighter, stronger and more confident.
  • Know how take care of yourself as you complete the program and access additional support if needed.

Week 2 – Going back in order to move forward

In this session, you will learn…

  • Why revisiting your birth experience is so important for psychological recovery.
  • How to write your own Birth Narrative so you can reflect on your birth in a way that helps your mind process what happened.
  • Useful psychological tools to help you gently move through the feelings this might bring up.

Week 3 – Rewriting the stories we tell ourselves about birth 

In this session, you will learn…

  • Why we humans create ‘stories’ to give meaning to our experiences – and how to spot if you’ve been telling yourself an unhelpful story about your birth.
  • How to rethink and gently challenge any unhelpful stories you have been carrying. 
  • The importance of zooming out and recognising the role played by the systems we birth within. 

Week 4 – Healing the feelings

In this session, you will learn…

  • What to do with feelings of anger about what happened at your birth, including how to dive beneath your anger, express it effectively AND use it constructively. 
  • How to work through and heal that intense sadness about what you missed out on with your baby. 
  • Effective ways to stop blaming yourself if you are stuck in cycles of failure, self-blame, guilt or shame .

Week 5 – Unlocking the power of self-compassion

In this session, you will learn…

  • Step-by-step guidance on how to use self-compassion to soothe difficult feelings. 
  • A powerful psychological imagery technique you can use to deepen your emotional healing.
  • The magic of the unsent letter: how to use this clever emotional expression tool to move on from your birth experience. 

Week 6 – Reflections and moving forward

In this session, you will…

  • Reflect on the aspects of this program that have been the most impactful for you and how you can continue to use them.
  • Take home two additional psychological strategies to help you deal with unhelpful thoughts or feelings.
  • Learn where to access additional support going forward.

This online program is for you if...

Your previous birth experience didn’t go as you hoped and left you feeling shocked, sad, disappointed, angry or traumatised.

Thoughts and feelings about your last birth do not bother you all the time, but you are aware that you carry some distressing feelings connected to it.

You are interested to learn more about systemic factors involved in birth-related distress and how birth affects the transition to motherhood.

You’ve been wanting to think more about your birth experience for a while but haven’t found it easy to connect with the right support.

You’d love to learn from and be guided by a psychologist with expertise in birth and birth trauma, but don’t feel you need 1-1 therapy.

You want to carve out some time and space to commit to properly processing your birth experience.

But NOT for you if ...

You want to work 1:1 with a psychologist.

Whilst you will get a high level of support from me within this small group program, this is not equivalent to individual therapy. 

You are having flashbacks, nightmares and severe anxiety after your birth.

This is not a PTSD treatment program. If thoughts and feelings about your birth are frequent, overwhelming or hard to control, it is recommended that you seek 1:1 support via your GP.

You are currently feeling very low in mood or anxious and finding it hard to enjoy day-to-day life. 

As this program does not specifically address postnatal anxiety or depression symptoms, it is recommended that you seek 1-1 support via your GP.

Considering this program as part of your preparation to have another baby?

Enrol in the Birth Healing Program and receive 50% discounted access to my beautiful Better Birth Program

This is yours to redeem now, or at any point in future – so you can benefit from support and advice throughout your next pregnancy. 

Frequently Asked Questions

This program is created by a psychologist and based on psychological theories, principles and research. This means that it can go beyond the traditional peer support approach to provide information and strategies that are carefully combined to address the common thoughts and feelings facing parents after a distresing birth. The program is therefore evidence-based and highly relevant for parents affected by a traumatic or distressing birth experience.  

I believe that many parents could benefit significantly from such psychological support even if they have not developed post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) or postnatal depression/anxiety after their birth – because a difficult birth can create a ripple effect, impacting confidence, self-esteem, relationships and the adjustment to parenthood. That’s why I took great care to create this program!

It’s important to know that this is a group program and not 1-1 support. However, I deliberately keep group size small so I can think about each group member as we move through the program and you will be able to ask me your questions during the weekly sessions and in the closed facebook group. I will also carefully consider your suitability for the group when you enrol to ensure it is best for you – and call you after completion to chat about any further support and next steps for you. 

If you are currently struggling with frequent unwanted distressing thoughts about your birth experience and the memories or associated feelings are affecting your day-to-day life, then individual therapy is likely to be best for you. I’d advise you to start by chatting to your GP about what you are experiencing and potential referral options.

If you have a diagnosis of depression/anxiety and are already accessing professional support, you are very welcome to apply to join the program. We can chat prior to the start to ensure that the group is a suitable pathway for you.

If you are generally doing well but would value some additional time, support and tools to deal with your birth experience, an online group program like this sounds right for you.

As this program is a small group program, facilitated live online, I can only run it every few months. I am likely to be running this program in April, July and October in 2024. Spots are limited to keep group size small. If you’d like to be notified when I open enrolments, please join the waitlist. 

When deciding whether or not to do this program, it might be important for you to know that you are choosing a program that has been designed and led by an experienced perinatal clinical psychologist. The program is evidence-based: built on psychological principles and research about birth trauma, as well my clinical experience of working individually with parents who have had difficult, distressing or traumatic births. 

As a registered health progressional, I am prohibited from using testimonials from my clients (which is why you won’t see any on this website!)

Please bear in mind, as with any psychological intervention, there are numerous factors involved in determining how valuable the program might be for you. It is impossible for me to promise or guarantee a particular result, but we can discuss my suggested next steps for you individually at the end of the program.

Absolutely not! Birth is complex and there is no ‘right way’ to give birth. I believe women should be supported to birth in whatever way feels safest to them, based on their own concerns, preferences, needs and research. I am aware that there are many different factors involved in a difficult birth experience, which is discussed in more depth in the program. 

Of course! We understand that difficult feelings about birth can linger for many years if you have had the right support to process your experience. 

Each session lasts about an hour and you may wish to continue some of the activities in your own time afterwards.  If you can carve out 1-2 hours a week across the six weeks to dedicate to healing from your birth, then this course is very doable for you.

If you can’t make a session, you will receive access to a content summary so you can catch up on what you missed. You can also email me questions before each group which I’ll then answer for you in the session.

I plan to offer this program in 2025, but am not yet sure exactly when it will be running.  If you’d like to be notified when I open enrolments, please join the waitlist.

PLEASE ENROL MINDFULLY – important information

  • The content in the program is a culmination of eight years of clinical psychology training and a further eight years of clinical practice in anxiety, trauma, women’s health and perinatal psychology. The content of the course is based on strategies that I teach within the framework of individual psychological therapy but has been adapted to suit a non-clinical population.
  • Although the course runs for six weeks, you will have ongoing access to the session summaries and materials shared during the program. You’ll also have access to any new resources that are added to the program during the next 12 months.

Have a question I’ve not answered?

Send it to me in a quick email, and I’ll get back to you personally.

info@thebirthhealingcollective.com